Saturday, August 21, 2010

August 2010: Love in the driest season


The next book club meeting will be Saturday August 21st at 7 pm. Please check the Yahoo group for location.
The book is available at the public library.
Here are some reviews:

"As a foreign correspondent, Tucker had worked in conflict zones on two continents and seen death in all its gruesome forms. "The steady stream of violence had worn away my natural sense of compassion to the point where I could cover almost any horror but felt very little about anything at all." Then, in 1997, Neely, a white Mississippian, and his African-American wife, Vita, were posted to Zimbabwe, where the AIDS crisis was feeding an unprecedented wave of sick and abandoned children. "The scale of death, and the depths of misery it entailed, defied the imagination even for someone like me...." Neely and Vita volunteered at an overwhelmed orphanage in the Zimbabwean capital, where diarrhea and pneumonia were killing babies at an alarming rate. Nobody dared whisper the word AIDS, though its specter hung over every crib. Here, Neely and Vita met Chipo, a desperately sick baby girl who had been abandoned under a tree. With temporary permission to take her home, Neely and Vita threw all available resources toward saving her life: round-the-clock feedings, good doctors, medicine and a clean, warm environment. She thrived. Neely and Vita decided to adopt Chipo, only to discover a slew of cultural taboos against adoption by foreigners-a white foreigner in particular. While Chipo grew healthy and fat under their care, the Tuckers negotiated a nightmarish bureaucracy that threatened to tear Chipo away from them; meanwhile, Zimbabwe was entering a period of civil unrest that targeted Americans and journalists. This is a gorgeous mix of family memoir and reportage that traverses the big issues of politics, racism and war."- Publishers weekly

"For years Neely Tucker was a foreign correspondent covering the world's most dangerous hot spots — Sarajevo, Nairobi, Kinshasa. In 1997 he was based in Zimbabwe. At that time, the country was the epicenter of the AIDS crisis in Africa.

Unable to have children of their own, Tucker and his wife, Vita, threw themselves into volunteer work at a local orphanage filled with sick infants whose parents had died or had simply abandoned them. It was there they met a baby girl named Chipo. In the Shona language, her name means "gift." Like thousands of children in Zimbabwe, she had been abandoned at birth and left for dead.

In a new book, Love in the Driest Season, Neely Tucker writes about the struggle to keep Chipo alive, and then the long journey through Zimbabwe's bureaucratic maze to make the child a permanent part of the family." - NPR 02/19/2004


This book was beautifully written and the story can be shocking at times.
I am sure this will bring some great discussions.

Friday, July 16, 2010

Catching up

So yes, I have been neglecting this blog.

But that doesn't' mean this fabulous group of women has not been busy and having fun.

May 2010 the club watched the movie Adopted, which I have to say, I am terrible sorry I missed it. I still have not watched it, but it is on my list. From what I have heard from others, it brought some great dicussion to the table.

June 2010 was time for Confession of a Slacker Mom by Muffy Mead-Ferrow. I read the book and I have to admit that I identify myself with some parts of it. However, I actually got itrritated with description of some of the behavior of a slacker mom. When it comes to safety of my child, I am not a slacker mom!


July 2010, we are actually taking a break from a book and we are just going to enjoy the company of our friends and have a lot of fun watching a movie while laying on a float inside of the pool. How cool is that?

The next book club meeting will be on 07/24 at 6:30. Please check the Yahoo group for location. We will be wathing the Blind Side.

Can't wait until next week ladies.
I just love summer!


Thursday, March 25, 2010

April 2010: Shanghai Girls



Our book selection for April 2010 is Shanghai Girls by Lisa See.
The next Book Club meeting will be on Saturday, April 10th at 6:30 pm. Please check the Yahoo group for location and directions.
This book is available at the public library.
Here are some reviews:
"Shanghai Girls" is a well-woven narrative that flows well and Lisa See credibly evokes the bond between two sisters, whose love for one another is strong, yet also fraught by rivalries. This is not just a story about siblings for it is also about the clash between East and West as the sisters struggle to find their footing in a new world, even as the bonds of their old world remain strong. Lisa See is truly a gifted author for being able to portray both the old world of 17th and 19th century China [as seen in Peony and Snow Flower] and the new as seen in "Shanghai Girls". Final verdict: a compelling read." - Amazon.com

"Lisa’s See’s new novel, Shanghai Girls, provides a rich experience for its readers – taking them from the splendor, highlife, glamour and poverty of 1937 Shanghai to the struggles of Chinese immigrants to survive a virtual internment on Angel Island, off the coast of San Francisco, to the almost impossible challenges of trying to build a life in Los Angeles Chinatown in the context of an America that does not want them and treats them cruelly. But despite its rich background, Shanghai Girls is ultimately the story of two sisters – Pearl and May – who desperately strive to help each other survive and at the same time replay in their minds and actions old rivalries, jealousies, and hurts. "-Goodreads

I enjoyed it, I hope you do too. See you soon.

Monday, March 8, 2010

March 2010: The Middle Heart


Our book selection for March 2010 is The Middle Heart Bette Bao Lord
The next Book Club meeting will be on Saturday, March 13th at 6:30 pm. Please check the Yahoo group for location and directions.
This book is available at the public library.

Here are some reviews:

"In 1932, three youngsters from different social strata vow to remain
forever "blood brothers of the Middle Heart." Steel Hope, scion of the noble
but impoverished House of Li; Mountain Pine, his lame "bookmate" (study
companion) and servant; and Firecracker, the daughter of a gravekeeper, are
to endure and share lives of turmoil and pain, loyalty and love." Publishers Weekly

"Their paths diverge as China descends into chaos and war. Firecrackers becomes Summer Wishes, an opera singer who learns to hide her fears and perform with bombs falling close by; Steel Hope is an engineer and bureaucrat who joins the communist underground to fight the Japanese and puts loyalty to the revolution above all else; Mountain Pine becomes a writer and a hermit, but learns he can't run away from his feelings. War, revolution, the vagaries of Communist rule, and family loyalties test the friendship of the three, and their final reunion is bittersweet. Lord brings her knowledge of China and her gift of storytelling to this tale of friendship and love set against the backdrop of modern history." School Library Journal

Hope to see you Saturday!

Monday, March 1, 2010

Catching up- December, January and February 2010

Yes, yes I know, I said I was going to keep this current but I guess some catching up will have to do.

December was our "vacation" month and all we did was party. The ornament exchange luncheon was a hit as always.





In January we read a very interesting and thought provoking book, Lucky Girl by Mei-Ling Hopgood. The book is about the author's experiences as an adoptee suddenly confronted by the reality of her biological family's reemergence into her life. A new member recently joined our book club and she is both an adoptee and an adoptive mother. It was exciting and very insightful to hear her perspectives on the issue of birth parents. "R" we are really happy you joined our club.


In February, we read two books trying to look at two different points of view: the adult adoptees and birth mothers from Korea.
  • After the Morning Calm: Reflections of Korean Adoptees by Nancy Fox, is a collection of essays written by Korean adoptees living in the United States or Europe.

    "These voices tell their individual stories in prose and verse, offering personal insights into the issues of being trans-racial adoptees, of going through the pains of adoption and coming to terms with one’s identity, being accepted and succeeding in the larger community and giving back, and finally finding his or her own place in the world." Korean Quarterly.

Overall, we had a wonderful start for 2010 and there is a lot more to come!

The calendar for 2010 has been updated and we have received many book suggestions for future readings.